How to approach women.
Hi, if you want to know exactly
how to approach women, listen carefully :)
Here is a short guide of how to approach women:
1. Be more social... If you want to approach women... it's good if you warm up before you approach... try to be overly sociable... talk to people you are not attracted to.
2. Good body language... Think about how you present yourself... Have a straight back... Relaxed shoulders... Have a relaxed vibe about yourself.
3. Make eye contact... It's confident to make eye contact... but don't stare at people... have smiling relaxed eyes.
4. Don't hesitate... Don't stand and wait to approach... as soon as you see the woman approach her (if she's not with her boyfriend or really busy)... if you do it directly it becomes less frightening every time.
5. What to talk about? I usually used something situational... it can be anything as long as it's not needy or shows to much intention... I have learned how to use humor really effectively to open up conversations and attract women... I use a technique called High Status Humor...
I really recommend you to see this video about High Status Humor...
Click this link to see the video now... it might not be online tomorrow!
I will tell you the story of how I went from a guy that never dared to approach, to meeting new women everyday without even thinking about approaching.
I am John, I was really afraid of approaching women, especially hotter women...
Usually I didn’t have any fun creative thing to say… If I started a conversation I would say something like this: -
“Hi, I’m John… are you having a good time?”. I usually didn't get any good response and the conversation often died out.
I barely approached women, but when I did I always failed. My approach and my lines just didn’t work…
I needed to learn how to make women laugh.
After being single for over 5 years I decided to do something about my problem.
I was tired of being rejected and if I didn’t handle this problem now I would probably spend the rest of my life the same way and miss out on a lot of opportunities.
I decided to make a change in my life. I spent 2 months reading tons of books and articles about how to approach women, but most of the techniques required a lifestyle change and a lot of work from my side.
I wanted something that was easier to learn and required less effort to practice. With that in mind I continued to look around… after two weeks I hit the jackpot. I found a technique called
High Status Humor.
As you can hear it’s about using humor to increase your status.
My first reaction was that humor can’t be learned, but I soon discovered that this was a myth.
It took me a few weeks to learn this stuff, but man… this stuff is now my secret weapon. Not only is it super easy to get girls attention (I mostly don’t even have to approach), but it also works to get women attracted to me.
And best thing of all, it doesn’t come off as “trying” to pick up. I am just a fun guys and girls want to be around. I now use this stuff in any social setting and I get new phone numbers every day.
The past 6 months I have been dating 10 girls (I could have been dating A LOT more, but instead I have chosen the very best women only).
I have a lot of female friends now, so meeting new women is so much easier now.
From being afraid of approaching women I’m now surrounded by them. I wish I had learned about this earlier, but I am also lucky that I stumbled upon it.
There is a video I can recommend you to see that explains more about High Status Humor...
Click here to see the video before it's taken down!
Approaching women is almost an art form. When I first begun approaching women I screw up a lot. I didn’t know the right moment to approach or how to do it.
The more I practiced the better I got. It was when I stopped caring about being rejected I really got my break though. After that I started approaching 4-5 times as many girls in a night. The more you approach the faster you will learn and the more women you will get.
Now I can see what women are interested or not without even speaking to them. I can also start talking to the hottest girls and make them attracted to me… I know if I have a chance within the first minute so I don’t waste any time.
Read my story to learn more about approaching women (click the home in the top)
Bars and clubs are good environments to approach women. But there are some things you can do to make it easier for you.
If you are at a club with loud music… it can be hard to communicate, especially if you are on the dance floor. Where it’s loud I usually just make eye contact with women and pick up on things they do, for example if a girl is on the dance floor with her friend but they are barely dancing… I dance up next to them imitating their stiff dance. I usually get them to laugh, after that it’s game on.
Click the home link in the top to read my story.
Approaching women can be hard, especially early at night when you are not socially adapted. If you have been sitting at an office all week long then you need some warm up before you go out to approach women.
What I usually do is that I go out pretty early with a social friend. We go out to talk to new people, we talk to everybody, guys, older ladies, older guys, ugly girls, hot girls. I do this just to get used to talking to new people.
Then I start to approach women… at the beginning of night it’s only practice. I don’t care if I fail, it’s always another girl I can approach.
